Would you be with someone who don't pull their weight at home?

DarkAngel

DarkAngel

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i am not going to specify the gender because it's all the same.
so if a person contributes 50/50 to the household expenses but doesn't pull their weight at home and not doing anything chores at home, can you be with them?
 
Honestly, I think a relationship is 50-50 including pulling the weight at home. Relationships work better when you're working as a team, however, I do understand the perspective of having one handle everything at the house.
 
Nope, unless there is something unusual/special going on, I need someone to meet me half way.
 
No, unless my wife isn't feeling that great and needs some time to relax. It's better to split the chores up, it makes it easier on both of us.
 
I am. My fiancee is disabled. I do all the cooking, cleaning, assembling of furnishings. I'm also the one that goes to work full time. Her $56/month in SSI (she used to get $950, but because of some random paperwork... mistakes? it got reduced. I'm really hoping it gets restored, but it's not looking too good right now.) pays for half of my monthly commute. She also get's a reduced rate on the Internet and Electricity bills, and of course her Food Stamps (without which, I'd starve).

Anybody know of a decent office job available paying like $20/hour, full time?
 
Senkusha said:
I am. My fiancee is disabled. I do all the cooking, cleaning, assembling of furnishings. I'm also the one that goes to work full time. Her $56/month in SSI (she used to get $950, but because of some random paperwork... mistakes? it got reduced. I'm really hoping it gets restored, but it's not looking too good right now.) pays for half of my monthly commute. She also get's a reduced rate on the Internet and Electricity bills, and of course her Food Stamps (without which, I'd starve).

Anybody know of a decent office job available paying like $20/hour, full time?
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Are you looking for remote office jobs? I found some on Indeed that's hiring. It may be worth a shot submitting your resume. https://www.indeed.com/jobs?q=Remot...um=redir&utm_campaign=dt&vjk=3a086e77b1dd273d

These jobs are looking to hire for $20-$30 an hour, there's various locations available atm.
 
Senkusha said:
I am. My fiancee is disabled. I do all the cooking, cleaning, assembling of furnishings. I'm also the one that goes to work full time. Her $56/month in SSI (she used to get $950, but because of some random paperwork... mistakes? it got reduced. I'm really hoping it gets restored, but it's not looking too good right now.) pays for half of my monthly commute. She also get's a reduced rate on the Internet and Electricity bills, and of course her Food Stamps (without which, I'd starve).

Anybody know of a decent office job available paying like $20/hour, full time?
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sorry and your are real deal hun
not anyone could stay with people who contribute less when they themselves are struggling and doing all the work at home and at work. i really admire you.
sorry i don't know why such job
 
Cpvr said:
Are you looking for remote office jobs? I found some on Indeed that's hiring. It may be worth a shot submitting your resume. https://www.indeed.com/jobs?q=Remote+Office&from=mobRdr&utm_source=/m/&utm_medium=redir&utm_campaign=dt&vjk=3a086e77b1dd273d

These jobs are looking to hire for $20-$30 an hour, there's various locations available atm.
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Thank you for the link! I've been using Indeed, and have been spinning my wheels in the mud. I'll give this list a try. Maybe I'm just doing things incorrectly.
 
I can't be with someone who can't be a good partner. If I can do everything by myself, what's the point of having a partner in life?
 
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