How to control yourself when you are about to cry?

Claraviolet

Claraviolet

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I take deep breaths but that doesn't always help.
Do you guys have any tips for me?
 
Don't hold it in. It will always get worse when you try to hold everything in.
Try to get to a private place or just let it out.
 
Nameless said:
You have never cried man?
I don't cry a lot too but I am still a human who get hurt.
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I learned how to deal with emotional hurt long ago. I haven't really felt any real physical pain enugh to make me cry for most of my life so I can say I haven't cried for over a decade.
 
BurnsyCEO said:
I learned how to deal with emotional hurt long ago. I haven't really felt any real physical pain enugh to make me cry for most of my life so I can say I haven't cried for over a decade.
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That's so cool man.
I get into fights a few times and I am not a stranger to psychical pain but it never makes me cry. I get hurt when my dad jabs at me for something.
 
i am not good at controlling my tears and i can't help you.
try to think of something nice or blink your eyes a lot, and the tears will be gone for sometime.
 
MadaraUchiha said:
By developing apathy, you don't even need to hold your breath or anything. Stop caring and you'll be fine.
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What the....that is easier said than done.
I have tried...but I can't seem....to stop caring ;_;
Toshio?
 


You little.... Why is not being able to say no to a family member, being called as childish?
I really wish I could say no and scream at people for once in my life.
 
Claraviolet said:
You little.... Why is not being able to say no to a family member, being called as childish?
I really wish I could say no and scream at people for once in my life.
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All my life they were different.
They used to care about me but that changed somewhere and I can't seem to forget those days damn it
 
Claraviolet said:
All my life they were different.
They used to care about me but that changed somewhere and I can't seem to forget those days damn it
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I'm sorry hun, it must be hard for you but it's upto you to either move on and let them be or try to fix things. I know you love and cherish them but you need to think about your well being.
 
blackrose said:
I'm sorry hun, it must be hard for you but it's upto you to either move on and let them be or try to fix things. I know you love and cherish them but you need to think about your well being.
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What pains me the most is they believe that.. . They are trying to help me to get the best of everything. For some unknown reason they just can't see that how much they are hurting me and it's just too much for me to deal with
 
Claraviolet said:
What pains me the most is they believe that.. . They are trying to help me to get the best of everything. For some unknown reason they just can't see that how much they are hurting me and it's just too much for me to deal with
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Well I don't wana get into your personal space but it's only if I know the exact situation can I help or try to help. Don't wana comment on something I'm not sure about . But if it's to much for you to deal with then let it out .trust me you don't wana keep anything bottled, it will be hurtful but better this way. Just say what you need to say hun and express what you need to.
 
blackrose said:
Well I don't wana get into your personal space but it's only if I know the exact situation can I help or try to help. Don't wana comment on something I'm not sure about . But if it's to much for you to deal with then let it out .trust me you don't wana keep anything bottled, it will be hurtful but better this way. Just say what you need to say hun and express what you need to.
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I do that all the time but I get ignored like always. I want to give up on voicing my thoughts.. But I just can't do that.
It's my life so i suppose I have to take a stand.
 
Claraviolet said:
I do that all the time but I get ignored like always. I want to give up on voicing my thoughts.. But I just can't do that.
It's my life so i suppose I have to take a stand.
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Whatever you decide to do, we are all here for you and always will be. Just be strong and do whatever u decide to after considerable thought hun, we just want you to be happy
 
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