How do I stop someone who wouldn't listen?

DarkAngel

DarkAngel

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i really don't know why my niece wouldn't listen to me after all this time. she reached out to me and said how her boyfriend just up and left her. i thought she would want us to be close again after the bad experience.
turns out she just wants money from me. i barely have anything left where would i get her 10k dollars? i think she would just turn around and give it to that fuker

please tell me how do i stop her. i can't see her hurt herself and she turned 36. old enough to understand obsession and true love
 
Claraviolet said:
If you start giving out money, she will need even more. If she needs it, she should start earning it.
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i never thought people would stand by my side. my distant cousins kept calling me to give in and try to get money for her.
i am lost and i just don't know what to do.
 
DarkAngel said:
i never thought people would stand by my side. my distant cousins kept calling me to give in and try to get money for her.
i am lost and i just don't know what to do.
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It's up to you at the end. If you were to raise the money once, she would expect you to do it again and then again... There might be no end to this.
You don't have enough yourself. So make a choice depending on what you want to do and what you can do.
 
You kept saying she is your family but does she treat you as her family? She is nothing but a blood sucker at this point. Sorry for the language but this is heartbreaking and you really shouldn't keep in touch with her. I can't help but think she is in cahoots with her boyfriend on this .
 
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