Do you like yourself?

DarkAngel

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just something i have been thinking lately and i don't think i like myself.
i know i shouldn't feel this way but i just can't help it
 
I am mixture there are things I like and things I don't like about myself.

I have changed through the years because of my life experiences. There are things that I have become more at ease with while there have been bad experiences that also have made me shed parts of me that feels like I was better when I had them yet with them there are things I couldn't bear to go through again just to keep them.
 
Kaynil said:
I am mixture there are things I like and things I don't like about myself.

I have changed through the years because of my life experiences. There are things that I have become more at ease with while there have been bad experiences that also have made me shed parts of me that feels like I was better when I had them yet with them there are things I couldn't bear to go through again just to keep them.
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that's so wholesome to hear kay
you are a better person than me for keep changing to become a better person.
i can't change and let go of many things even if i know they are not good for me.
 
Oh, trust me some of those changes happened whether I wanted them or not. We are all molded by our experiences.
Touch the stove once, get burned then hesitate next time even if they tell you this time the stove is off. The best we can do is to stop beating ourselves for being the way we are. You can only take things one step at the time and remind yourself that you are not a robot and as imperfect being we will fall short from time to time.
 
Rinko said:
I don't think I am.
My husband regrets our marriage and I wasted 18 years with nothing and I might have to go back to family.
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sorry for that rin
may be he met someone new? or may be he changed? sorry that you have to go through this
 
Damn, that's quite a lot to process, Rinko. I am very sorry you have to go through something this impactful. I don't know how someone can regret after almost two decades, it sounds like he strung you along just to leave you stranded. I cannot begin to imagine how much this has brought you to question yourself, your priorities and what you thought was your future. It is terrifying to feel it all evaporate like that.

I wish I knew better what to say. I think it is the kind of thing you cannot rush to process. I just hope you can find strength to keep going even if just little by little. Keep taking care of yourself as best as you are able to right now.
 
People often think they do care for themselves but in reality, that's not the case.
They look out for others and find their own happiness in their loved ones joy. But if that makes them truly happy, may be it is a good thing.
 
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