Do you like yourself?
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DarkAngel
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don't say that.
i think you are better than me. and i feel like you are a better person than me rin
take care
Kaynil
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I am mixture there are things I like and things I don't like about myself.
I have changed through the years because of my life experiences. There are things that I have become more at ease with while there have been bad experiences that also have made me shed parts of me that feels like I was better when I had them yet with them there are things I couldn't bear to go through again just to keep them.
I have changed through the years because of my life experiences. There are things that I have become more at ease with while there have been bad experiences that also have made me shed parts of me that feels like I was better when I had them yet with them there are things I couldn't bear to go through again just to keep them.
DarkAngel
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that's so wholesome to hear kay
you are a better person than me for keep changing to become a better person.
i can't change and let go of many things even if i know they are not good for me.
Kaynil
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Oh, trust me some of those changes happened whether I wanted them or not. We are all molded by our experiences.
Touch the stove once, get burned then hesitate next time even if they tell you this time the stove is off. The best we can do is to stop beating ourselves for being the way we are. You can only take things one step at the time and remind yourself that you are not a robot and as imperfect being we will fall short from time to time.
Touch the stove once, get burned then hesitate next time even if they tell you this time the stove is off. The best we can do is to stop beating ourselves for being the way we are. You can only take things one step at the time and remind yourself that you are not a robot and as imperfect being we will fall short from time to time.
Rinko
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I don't think I am.
My husband regrets our marriage and I wasted 18 years with nothing and I might have to go back to family.
DarkAngel
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sorry for that rin
may be he met someone new? or may be he changed? sorry that you have to go through this
Rinko
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I think he met someone who is a lot less complicated than me. I don't know what to do and how to process this and move on with my life
Kaynil
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Damn, that's quite a lot to process, Rinko. I am very sorry you have to go through something this impactful. I don't know how someone can regret after almost two decades, it sounds like he strung you along just to leave you stranded. I cannot begin to imagine how much this has brought you to question yourself, your priorities and what you thought was your future. It is terrifying to feel it all evaporate like that.
I wish I knew better what to say. I think it is the kind of thing you cannot rush to process. I just hope you can find strength to keep going even if just little by little. Keep taking care of yourself as best as you are able to right now.
I wish I knew better what to say. I think it is the kind of thing you cannot rush to process. I just hope you can find strength to keep going even if just little by little. Keep taking care of yourself as best as you are able to right now.
People often think they do care for themselves but in reality, that's not the case.
They look out for others and find their own happiness in their loved ones joy. But if that makes them truly happy, may be it is a good thing.
They look out for others and find their own happiness in their loved ones joy. But if that makes them truly happy, may be it is a good thing.
Rinko
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Thank you for the reply.
It's hard not just because he is leaving me halfway but I cut ties with my family for him and going back to them after everything is too hard. I do talk to my family but I haven't visited them for over a decade
Kaynil
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Darn, yeah that is really tough. Hopefully it goes better than you fear. Specially as you have kept communication with them. If they got your back, hopefully they can make you feel safe and in time help you to get back to your feet. I'm rooting for you, Rinko! I hope it goes well.
Hrmmmm, no not really. A lot of things about me suck to be honest and hate dealing with it.
Rinko
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Thank you but they wouldn't want to help me. That's the last thing they would want to do and they never wanted me to leave for another country.
Kaynil
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I'm so sorry to hear that. That's so harsh.
I hope you end up getting support from other people if you can't get it from them.
Rinko
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Thank you. Hopefully I can get support as I will need it