When is winning doesn't feel good to you?

When the other person is really sad or something I won't be able to enjoy the glory and also when someone lets me win on purpose
 
Blackrose said:
When the other person is really sad or something I won't be able to enjoy the glory and also when someone lets me win on purpose
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Yes the later really sounds annoying. So uh.. you get touched by your opponent feelings huh..

Blackangel said:
when my opponent is someone i care for
and when the said opponent wants to win it just as badly
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Oh.. have you ever compete with someone you care?

Star_Of_Hope said:
Not sure
It depends on the event and such. Well, that stuff doesn't happen very often
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Have you ever join competition before?
 
grey_fox said:
Yes the later really sounds annoying. So uh.. you get touched by your opponent feelings huh..


Oh.. have you ever compete with someone you care?


Have you ever join competition before?
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i did
with my niece and from then on, i don't mind purposefully losing if it means i can make her happy
 
grey_fox said:
Yes the later really sounds annoying. So uh.. you get touched by your opponent feelings huh..


Oh.. have you ever compete with someone you care?


Have you ever join competition before?
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Yes
But it's always the same. No hard feelings whatsoever and everyone treats everything the same
 
grey_fox said:
Really? It's hard to confront greedy people
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Uh...I mean taking everything just the same, like winning or losing something, would help us, in not getting too greedy about something.
Guess my statement is a little ambiguous there
 
Star_Of_Hope said:
Uh...I mean taking everything just the same, like winning or losing something, would help us, in not getting too greedy about something.
Guess my statement is a little ambiguous there
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I understand now, not being too ambitious
 
i wouldn't want to say this
but kids don't usually take the defeat well and we adults shouldn't deliberately lose sometimes to make them happy
 
Blackangel said:
i wouldn't want to say this
but kids don't usually take the defeat well and we adults shouldn't deliberately lose sometimes to make them happy
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What's why adult should educate those kids about the right perspective of winning and losing
 
Blackangel said:
i wouldn't want to say this
but kids don't usually take the defeat well and we adults shouldn't deliberately lose sometimes to make them happy
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That's true
They usually want adults to let them win and they want to believe, they are better than anyone else
 
grey_fox said:
What's why adult should educate those kids about the right perspective of winning and losing
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yeah but some kids can be very annoying
and they believe they can never be defeated by anyone and they can throw a tantrum
 
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