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Blackrose said:
Parenthood is a journey chick..your journey. No one's journey will ever be perfect. Just give it your best and I'm sure that you will be able to handle this. we all make mistakes..just got to learn from them and try to move forward
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thank you so much. i needed to hear that.
i am only about 14 years older to her and she always treated me as a best friend than a mother
 
Blackangel said:
thank you so much. i needed to hear that.
i am only about 14 years older to her and she always treated me as a best friend than a mother
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That'sa great relationship to have with kids love but remember there are times when you have to be strict as well...balance is the key i suppose

Poseidon said:
Naah i don't like it, it's not my style
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thought so bjt the curiosity in me just had to know hehe
 
Blackrose said:
That'sa great relationship to have with kids love but remember there are times when you have to be strict as well...balance is the key i suppose


thought so bjt the curiosity in me just had to know hehe
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thank you so much blackrose
i really needed the support and i needed someone to say i am not doing anything wrong unlike clara
 
Blackangel said:
thank you so much blackrose
i really needed the support and i needed someone to say i am not doing anything wrong unlike clara
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She might have her reasons for thinking that way but I personally think you are not doing anything wrong. it will be extremely hard for both of you if you didn't do this. Your niece will realize it one day to hun.
 
Blackrose said:
She might have her reasons for thinking that way but I personally think you are not doing anything wrong. it will be extremely hard for both of you if you didn't do this. Your niece will realize it one day to hun.
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she asked what i would do if my niece wouldn't be happy in the future.
i couldn't answer her but i think she will be happy
 
Blackangel said:
you are right .
i don't even understand why i am hesitating for this long. i should make up my mind
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remember that there is a timeline to have that done safely for her...you need to make up your mind fast
 
Blackrose said:
remember that there is a timeline to have that done safely for her...you need to make up your mind fast
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i know
but what if she can do this? i keep thinking like that . i shouldn't have asked clara about her opinion
 
Blackangel said:
i know
but what if she can do this? i keep thinking like that . i shouldn't have asked clara about her opinion
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Well it's upto you and her but as I said she won't have any choices if you don't make up your mind soon
As a single mom I'm telling you it's really hard and emotionaly and physically draining..not saying that you should do it but again consider the future
 
Blackrose said:
Well it's upto you and her but as I said she won't have any choices if you don't make up your mind soon
As a single mom I'm telling you it's really hard and emotionaly and physically draining..not saying that you should do it but again consider the future
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thank you
i will talk to her over more before taking the final decision. i don't want this to break us apart
 
thank you
and i will try to see the brighter side. we made normal progress today but we were not able to meet 300 yesterday
 
you might be right but i don't want to take chances
star and clara wouldn't be here and i don't think i can count on anyone what
 
I would understand if you are afraid of Star not being able to post but Clara is never here man.
It doesn't make much difference
 
may be so but this time, it's going to be only us
i don't think we can do it and if my condition worsens we skills kiss goodbye to our goal
 
no. isn't that very expensive?
i don't think i can afford it and i wouldn't want to spend too much time in waters
 
Not if you have decided to spend less than a week man.
It's expensive if you wanted to go on a long trip but it's different for a short trip
 
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