if it's mentioned once, it's funny, twice, not so funny any more.
but if it makes you feel better, again it's my fault.
The best crying scene in an anime
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but if it makes you feel better, again it's my fault.
Grungie
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If me mentioning Boku no Pico as a joke and saying I make fun of BL fans upsets you this much, it says a lot more about you than it does me.
If I said something that mild got you that upset for you to go off on me like that, I can’t imagine the emotional breakdown you’ll have if I actually said something mean and nasty about BL.
You need to grow up and get over the fact that people aren’t going to like what you like. Especially if it’s something niche and obviously off-putting to a lot of people.
The community has a bad reputation already, and you throwing a temper tantrum over a mildly negative comment about it doesn’t do you, or the community any favors.
You acting the way you’re acting in this thread just solidifies people’s preconceived notions about a fandom they already look down on.
So if you don’t want the BL fandom to be looked down, you need to set the example.
because i got hit hard as i admired you grung.
you don't take $hit from anyone and that's the feel i got and you lay the facts straight and in my mind you were a sensible guy but you don't jump in pointless discussions.
even after knowing i like a genre if you keep poking the dark spots of that genre, apart from feel targeted i don't know what else to say. because i were sure you are a no nonsense guy.
Grungie
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Just because I don’t play bullshit doesn’t mean I can’t have fun. Also, your accusations came out of left field. When you randomly deny that you do something that you weren’t accused of, you either look like an idiot, or you look guilty. If you look at the chain of events, your logic makes no sense, and to be honest, it still makes no sense. When I said “I don’t have BL, but I make fun of the fans”, and you randomly ran off a list of shit you don’t do, did you just admit you were guilty of all that? That’s what it looks like.
Also, who cares that people make fun of things you like, it’s never going to go away, especially if you like something that has an obnoxious fan base. No matter what you do, you aren’t going to win everyone over. Constantly whining about it makes it worse. It also just reinforces their negative stereotypes.
If people make fun of it, just ignore it. I have things I like that have annoying fandoms, and I tend to ignore when people talk shit about it, hell, sometimes I join in too, because I too think that side of the community is annoying.
and yet i fail to see why you don't see the biased opinion
but whatever floats your boat. i don't want to argue anymore and i can't agree to something which doesn't make any sense to me.
Grungie
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Idk what you mean by “biased opinion”.
Unless you somehow still can’t grasp why people find the fandom annoying or obnoxious. I’ve explained it several times before, and it’s not rocket science.
The community needs to get over its victim complex and realize that your community has some loudmouthed annoying people in it. There’s no targeted attack, they paint it upon themselves when they act annoying.
Let’s talk about how anime fans get made fun of instead of talking about BL. A lot of people find the community weird and annoying, and a lot of people think it’s all a bunch of perverted grown men obsessed with specializing underaged girls. Do you think repeatedly whining about being made fun of, or how nobody understands lolis is going to change anyone’s opinions?
The same can be said about furries and bronies. Whining about being made fun of and then bring up yiffing and clopping isn’t helping.
So there’s no “biased opinion”. If you guys are talking about the stuff people find weird in a dedicated thread or forum, and I make fun of that, then that just makes me an asshole. If you constantly whine about being made fun of, or bringing it up when it isn’t necessary, you’re the asshole.
forget about bl for a sec.
i know shadow likes orihime but i loathe her. but i don't go out of my way to randomly popup in his threads insulting orihime. that's a bad move for me. but that's what you had done and you still don't think it's bad, and you keep saying i am whining? i fail to see just how your brain works grung.
this is the best crying scene in anime thread. when someone hears about it, they would think about emotional stuff? so is it still wrong of me to take it the wrong way. usually your posts make sense to me and i realize my mistakes. but in here, i still don't see where i am wrong in pointing out that, it's mean.
Grungie
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I already told you repeatedly that’s not what happened. I explained repeatedly the whole Boku no Pico joke, and it’s obvious you still don’t get it. If I explain the joke 18 more times will you still think I’m maliciously insulting the BL community? I’ve done the classic Bible Black joke multiple times here. It works exactly the same way as the Boku no Pico joke. School Days is another one to use for the same joke.
So if me doing the Bible Black joke doesn’t get a reaction out of you, but the Boku no Pico joke does, you have the biased opinion.
I mentioned this already, but because I used the Boku no Pico joke, and I said I made fun of BL fans, and I got that level of response from such a mild comment, and you think that’s insulting, what kind of emotional breakdown would I get out of you if I actually insulted it?
It looks like you get rage blinders when someone says anything negative about BL, and you twisted it into being a personal attack (which if you look back on this thread, you were not name dropped).
So since I didn’t insult the community, or you, and you reacted that way, that’s why it makes you look bad. If using the Boku no Pico joke is insulting to BL fans, it sounds like the BL community needs to grow a spine. I don’t see Bible Black or School Days fans losing their shit when anyone goes “hur hur Bible Black” or “hur hur School Days”, but apparently going “hur hur Boku no Pico” is a slight against humanity.
Elvis
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The ending of the first episode of Plastic Memories. It's a tearjerker. The android girl who tries to comfort her human "grandmother" and give her some final pieces of advice before her lifespan ending moved me to tears. And then the grandmother telling her that she will be ok and that she has nothing to worry about.
i still don't understand where i am failing to explain this. let me try and if it doesn't work, then i will give up.
there is no such thing as school days genre. but boku no pico, most of the time is used to represent the entire bl community. and like you said already we get a lot of h@te from other people and i do condone some behavior by other bl fans. but what pains me is, looking at me, you always remember that i am a bl fan. why? i make more threads about other anime than bl. so why do people think i am just a bl fan?
i am not trying to be defensive or uncooperative but it's painful and if you think it's just me being dramatic or emo, then i don't know what to say.
my question for you is, why don't you use this boku no pico joke with others in this community? why just me?
Grungie
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1: the joke (even before I’ve come across it) was never targeted at the BL community, or a joke to represent the BL community.
2: It wasn’t even directly targeted at you.
I post the joke on other anime sites, just like I do with the Bible Black joke (which works exactly the same way). So why would I use a joke to target a community when the joke isn’t to target a community? That’s like telling someone to tell a “why did the chicken cross the road” joke to a bunch of vegans. What’s the point?
Do you remember when shock sites were a popular gag 10+ years ago? Stuff like 2 Girls 1 Cup, or the Blue Waffle? Someone would post “I love blue waffles”, and someone would Google it and freak out at what they saw.
Take that, but replace it with an anime. That’s why the shows used in the gag is stuff like Boku no Pico, Bible Black, and School Days. These shows have some fucked up scenes, so you trick people into watching a fucked up show. Also, another commonality with these shows is that they were available around the same timespan of the shock videos, and why the joke hasn’t been updated with new shows that have similar material. So you either trick someone into watching the show, or you’re shitposting about how you love a show like Bible Black or Boku no Pico. There’s even a Know Your Meme page on it.
The only update is an infamous H doujin called Emergence, aka 177013. You can have fun researching that, but the overall punchline works the same way.
That’s why I think you’re overreacting. It’s a popular meme and shitpost tactic and you somehow twisted it into you being a victim. If me shitposting an old meme that uses a BL related show gets the ire of a BL fan, can you see why I think the fandom is annoying? I just have to use a show related to BL as a punchline to an unrelated joke and that pisses off a BL fan?
That’s why I mentioned in the last post that if that’s all it takes, your community needs to grow a spine. Nobody gets up in arms when people shitpost about Bible Black or School Days, but Boku No Pico causes the pitchforks to come out? If Bible Black is mentioned in a shitpost, people just do a Beavis and Butthead snicker “huh huh, he said Bible Black”. The same thing happens in other communities with the Boku no Pico joke, but apparently that’s a targeted joke to make fun of the BL community.
Grow up if that’s all it takes to offend you. If someone didn’t even make fun of something you like and it gets you this upset, that’s 100% a you problem, not a them problem.
The reason why people bring up the BL thing is because you made several threads whining about BL over and over and over and over. So since you mention it so much, and now you're twisting a joke into victimizing you, that's why it gets brought up a lot.
Grungie
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It’s short for Boys Love. It’s literally romance about gay dudes, and is usually written by women for women.
that $hit we do about joking is for others but not with people who consider our friends.
you keep saying it's not targeted towards me and i still don't see you bringing it up with anyone apart from me and it's hard for me to believe. i don't remember making bl threads to whine about it outside the bl sub forum here. lately i haven't even been posting and i am taking most of those posts to yo where people appreciate them.
what got me ticked off or me overreacting started, when i never remembered talking about the bible black and the other anime with me but you keep talking about boku no pico. but alright. if you think i should consider that as a joke, i should have either come across you using boky no pico joke other than me or the other anime jokes with me. but that didn't happen. let me just end this argument. i still feel bad and you still think i am overreacting.
Grungie
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Go look up how the joke works, I’m not making shit up I’ll give you $100 if you can find a source that says it’s a malicious joke to make fun of BL fans. I’ve also shitposted it in other threads, so it’s not even only told to you. You’re playing the victim and think it’s targeted at you entirely because it’s associated with BL, and you don’t have a spine when it comes to anyone saying anything remotely bad about BL. You have said on several occasions that you get mad when people make fun of it.
So I’ll say this once again:
It is not a joke targeted specifically at you
Sticking to the example I used in the last post about using a “why did the chicken cross the road” joke, because you identify as a vegan, and I used a joke that involved an animal, you somehow twisted it into thinking it’s a joke making fun of vegans. That’s exactly what you just did. I don’t understand the mental gymnastics involved in this unless you have a serious victim complex. This joke isn’t rocket science, and it’s impossible to dumb it down even further for you to understand, because you’re still trying to dig up any angle to make yourself the victim. I just explained how it’s the anime equivalent of a shock video, and people also use it to shitpost, and you still think it’s all about you. You’re a lost cause at this point if you’re still trying to convince anyone that this is all about you.
I’ll say this again, why would I specifically target the Boku no Pico joke to a BL forum when it’s not a joke to make fun of fujoshis? Using it in that manner serves zero purpose whatsoever. You’re trying to get me on some bullshit catch 22, and you have nothing to go off of.
Here’s some threads about you whining about people not respecting BL:
Why does fujoshi get a bad reputation?
this is only for decent people lol if you are here to trash talk, just don't reply to this thread and be sensible lol
myanimeforum.net
Those threads must not exist, and I made this all up because I’m just a massive liar who hates BL.
I’m too lazy to look for individual posts about you whining about people making fun of BL or you being made fun of for being a fujoshi, but you’ve done it repeatedly.
I also did a search for posts containing Boku no Pico and I can’t even find any posts made by me regarding the show. So seeing how I can’t find a post I made on the show prior to this thread that I’m not even targeting the joke at you. Another chalk next to you playing victim again.
I’m going to say this again, you need to grow up and also grow a spine. If you’re that offended at a joke that vicariously is related to BL and think it’s specifically targeted at you, you need to get off the internet.
You’re upset that I dislike the BL community, but it’s stuff like this that annoys me with the community. If you guys get this offended when I don’t even have to insult an individual or the community, then I don’t want anything to do with the community. Why do I need to worry about walking on eggshells if I don’t even have to diss the community and it causes an uproar?
Also to address your comment about friends, friends totally make jokes at each other, especially guys. In the anime community, people constantly make the “your waifu is shit” joke”, and it doesn’t even have to be directly targeted at anyone, but seeing how you acted in this thread, you’re the one person who can’t handle it.
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if you insist that it's not directed at me, i will take your words for granted. you haven't joked about the other anime with me and it made me feel like, you are doing this only because of my liked genres. i will check this theory with you later.
now i really want to see how you would react when someone insults your favorite character or anime repeatedly. not now but later.
Grungie
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I probably just didn’t have anything to say, there isn’t much to respond to with the Bible Black joke outside of doing a Beavis and Butthead style snicker. “Huh huh she said Bible Black”.
I like some stuff that’s popular to hate, and I don’t get mad. Hell, I even join in, especially if it’s something with an insufferable fan base. Sometimes it’s actually funnier that way, because as a fan, they can get pretty deep with the references.
The only time I respond to negative comments about something I like is if they try to look smart while they talk shit and get facts wrong. Everything I like has valid criticism, but if you want to look smart, at least learn about the thing you’re talking shit about. I do this a lot with technology, and a lot of PC gamers aren’t as knowledgeable as they pretend to be.
If it’s smack talking about a show or game I like, I don’t respond because there’s nothing to say or get worked up over.
sure grung
i will test it out but not too soon. i want to see just how you would genuinely react when people $hit talk about things related to your favorites