Starting to dislike a family member.....

[Claraviolet]

This idiotic person thinks everything in general perspective and everyone is the same and treats outsiders and the family members... With the same treatment. I am beginning to get fed that down to earth thing that they are trying to do.

For me, if I start to dislike someone, it wouldn't go away easily. Until now I have trigger my very best to ignore but now I will have to admit that I can't ignore it anymore. I am starting to truly dislike them.
Is there a way for me to stop this?

 

[????????]

In Europe people would tell the misbehaving person right in the face to teach them a lesson.
In America people would tell 4000 compliments unrelated to the problem to soften the tone and then tell the misbehaving person right in the face.
In Japan people would collect opinions from others, report it to a higher up, and then the higher up does everything to hint the misbehaving person to stop.

Not sure how it works in India though, but my advise is to do what you would normally do with non-family members, or because it's a family member, just do the Europe way (done in Japan among family members too actually, very likely in America too).

 

[Claraviolet]

The thing is except for me... No one cares that they are treating family members, same as some other random person. They are okay with it but it's annoying to me and before I know it, i am starting to get irritated with them

 

[Elvis]

Have you tried having a talk with that person and telling him/her how you feel about their behavior?

 

[Claraviolet]

Have you tried having a talk with that person and telling him/her how you feel about their behavior?

Yeah several times but there is no change and I am starting to get tired of this all. Right now, I am not communicating with them at all

 

[Kaname]

Cut your tires with them. It will be hard at first but you can get used to it

 

[Claraviolet]

Cut your tires with them. It will be hard at first but you can get used to it

Right now, in seriously thinking the same. It's not like I like them too much or anything and now I find them rather tiring and annoying. Hopefully, something will be done soon

 

[Blackangel]

if they don't like you enough, is their problem and if you aren't depraved enough to show affection to such members, you better grow up and distance yourself

 

[Kaname]

Right now, in seriously thinking the same. It's not like I like them too much or anything and now I find them rather tiring and annoying. Hopefully, something will be done soon

Everyone is saying the same thing for you. Just that it's a family member doesn't mean that you have to put up with everything.

You could easily call them upon their act and you see that they know what they are doing. If they don't change, just ignore them for good and live a happy life.