I am pretty sure it's not going to be easy to change your plans.
If that happens often, will you be able to accept it easily?
If that happens often, will you be able to accept it easily?
Is it really hard for you to change your plans often?
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Kaynil
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I prefer not to have to change my plans often and I can tell you it is not easy for me when I have to do that. The last time it happened was during my annual leave. I asked for 2 weeks off so I could go to the Gold Coast and to go to a concert. I had a severe burnout since the end of Last Year so I kind of put my plans on a pedestal and I was pretty much longing to "change my spawn point" for those days and enjoy different sights
Well, Cyclone Alfred had different plans for the area. Concert was cancelled and the Gold Coast was pretty much where it was expected to hit. Thankfully Alfred slowed down and it was downgraded toa Tropical storm by the time it hit land. It still flooded and took power in some areas but I was living in one of the ones spared. My days off were not what I planned. I had no money to travel far and the places nearby where the ones affected by flooding, so I had to spend that time at home. The first week I was pretty much coordinating stuff from work, so technically I only had one week off. And I am baaaaack to work, so I had a great lesson about not to get too attached to my plans.
At least natural disasters tend to be a one off most of the time, but yeah plans changing constantly, I don't think I would be able to adapt fast enough nor without paying a huge toll.
Well, Cyclone Alfred had different plans for the area. Concert was cancelled and the Gold Coast was pretty much where it was expected to hit. Thankfully Alfred slowed down and it was downgraded toa Tropical storm by the time it hit land. It still flooded and took power in some areas but I was living in one of the ones spared. My days off were not what I planned. I had no money to travel far and the places nearby where the ones affected by flooding, so I had to spend that time at home. The first week I was pretty much coordinating stuff from work, so technically I only had one week off. And I am baaaaack to work, so I had a great lesson about not to get too attached to my plans.
At least natural disasters tend to be a one off most of the time, but yeah plans changing constantly, I don't think I would be able to adapt fast enough nor without paying a huge toll.
Sometimes it's hard but we need to prepare for the alternative as well.
Davis
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It depends on the plans really.
I would say very situational and person specific as well.
For example, lets say you planned your day etc, it suddenly needs to change a little or you cant do something because something comes up.
Most of the not ideal / inconvenient yes - but most likely very doable.
Changing your plans for your future?
Much more harder - but again depends on the person but will be hard on anyone.
Due to being a big change - most people like to have some sort of routine.
We can adapt but we don't always want to.
I would say very situational and person specific as well.
For example, lets say you planned your day etc, it suddenly needs to change a little or you cant do something because something comes up.
Most of the not ideal / inconvenient yes - but most likely very doable.
Changing your plans for your future?
Much more harder - but again depends on the person but will be hard on anyone.
Due to being a big change - most people like to have some sort of routine.
We can adapt but we don't always want to.
I tend to plan my day out and stick to it, I really hate when things don't go as planned 
That must have been really disappointing, Kaynil chan and yes natural disasters are kinda hard to predict.
Hope you will get a really great vacation with decent time off soon!
Hola Davis chan!
How long has it been? How are doing kiddo? Is everything good?
Yes it's kinda hard to adapt ;-;
Yes ;-;I tend to plan my day out and stick to it, I really hate when things don't go as planned
Davis
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Hello, its been a while.
Yeah doing good, just working and relaxing and you?
Yeah it can be depending on what you are adapting too.
But if you are in an environment that is fast paced and changes happen a lot, it does become easier as you get use to it very quickly.
That's great... As for me... Well, life goes on and on and on -_-"
Yeah...I am kinda struggling at the moment with various stuff.
By the way, what's the recent coolest anime you have watched kiddo?
Davis
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Should take some time to relax, I use to work way too much and just do too much in general,
Lifes too short to stress about all sorts of things or over working yourself.
Its healthier and better to focus on yourself, so whatever it is, just do what makes you happy.
So i try and live as easy life as i can. Cant always cut it out, but i do try and minimise hassle.
The less hassle the happier you are. A little selfish but everyone needs it.
Also remember to speak to your friends family etc hopefully they can help if you need it.
Dont need to battle on your own.
Davis
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yeah same here.
can be annoying but can be done most of the time.
Davis
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Sorry forgot to add and i realised i cannot re edit my message.
Demon Slayer
I watched Solo leveling.
Watching some Jo's Jo's bizarre adventure right now
Thank you Davis chan.
I have set goals for my life and so far...I couldn't achieve them as something or the other ...happens and I will have to realign my goals based on the new changes.
My family doesn't really take them seriously but for me, they are... What defines me and my way of life.. and it's kinda hard to explain it to others.
I will have to look at those edit permissions ;_;
Sorry about that. I have heard a lot about solo leveling and how the protagonist is really cool and overpowered. Do you recommend it kiddo?
DarkAngel
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i am so sorry kay
it takes a lot of time to plan and get the vacation time off only for it to get called off in the end
Davis
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Keep trying your best i hope you get there.
You may or may not achieve them, but if you dont try then you definitely wont.
Only one way to find out really.
all good about those permissions - i just have a bad habbit, going back to edit what i wrote, as i didnt write it properly or missed something out.
Should check before i send haha.
I often have to re edit message on whatsapp/signal - mobile auto corrected or i mistyped something
yeah the main character does get strong.
I liked it, try it and see.
DarkAngel
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that's such a level-headed reply.
people are usually stubborn and they don't try to communicate at all lol.
but for the right person and with right communication it can happen smoothly
Davis
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Thanks,
I wasn't sure on what kind of plans so went for both daily/weekly and life plans.
Yeah people often are stuck in their routine.
Everyone has some sort of routine that they do daily, you may not even realise.
It can be rally hard to change this, if you have never done something different.
That why i say its very situational, it will be different for each person, depending on their life experiences / routines.
Can be anything from the foods you eat to the way you get up and get ready to go to work (hey some people do 1 job from when they leave school until they retire)
You can kind of say many people display autistic traits, doesn't mean they are autistic but we all most likely at least have 1 simillar trait.
Most people do like some sort of stable structure.