How would you React?

Ace

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So the other day, I was playing one of my games after working on some code, and well it was a very chill time I met a few people who wanted to laugh and have a good time, but some had to go. So a few random people had joined up. And one was just rude to everyone, (I do not have photo evidence so take my word on it) I assume he was just doing it for giggles,

but then someone else chimed in, and this is where it gets interesting,

They were a bit upset just in general not at anyone, the Person being rude did not help one bit.

I'm who I am I don't pry into others business if I know I shouldn't but I do react with kindness when someone's being rude Because I was brought up to "Treat others how you want to be treated"

So after a bit of back and forth of talking with the second person, I found the reason they were upset, they were having bad games with people who constantly bad mouthed them,

and some hit some soft spots, mainly about a deceased family member.

I talked to the second person some more and cheered them up as best as I could, after the game I messaged them this(For obvious reasons I'm blocking out their name):

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Normally I wouldn't think about posting this kind of thing on the internet but I wonder if I did the right thing sticking my nose in a bit too much.

Also, I know there's a chance they could have been lying but you'd have to take time and think about the stuff this person said beforehand in-game.
 
Sometimes, it's really hard to give advice that is useful to the other person. It can be for various reasons.
You did a great job Ace. Keep it up :)
 
Nice job on cheering the person up. But my own personal advice would have made things good from the start.

No mics, not ever! Seriously, too many aholes online for it to be worth it.
 
Demon_skeith said:
Nice job on cheering the person up. But my own personal advice would have made things good from the start.

No mics, not ever! Seriously, too many aholes online for it to be worth it.

What do you mean by no mics? No voice chat with people online? I talk through voice chat with people online all the time.
 
mute button is everyone's friend when people don't care about others at all and go yapping whatever the hell they want. you did a nice job
 
You made that person happy and I probably would have reacted the same as you, even though I don't all the details of it.
 
Me butting in wouldn't have made things better because I don't know what to say. I'd just tell em to mute the other person.
 
I'm pretty terrible in situations like this so unless it gets really serious I don't actually interfere. Also I don't really get offended a lot so I'm not  the best judge of 'crossing the line'.
 
SecretWish said:
did you talk to him or her again? are they back to their usual self? i wish they are not suffering

I Talked with Her this morning, She said they're trying but it's Hard, I'm hoping it'll go well for her.
 
Ace said:
I Talked with Her this morning, She said they're trying but it's Hard, I'm hoping it'll go well for her.

at least she is trying. i don't get why she is worried but hopefully she would get back to get own self and solve it
 
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