It is a tough lesson I am still learning but yeah, it is a futile battle trying to never rock the boat, someone will take offense to something you say or you don't say no matter how careful you are, and when it is reaching the point where you are not enjoying yourself and overthinking every word, there is not harm in taking a step back to remind ourselves that we are trying to be considerate and that we can't control how other people react.
I also know the first communities can really mark you when you have bad experiences, hopefully little by little you can prove to yourself that at least here, you can be a bit more chill. I'm sure most of us have an idea of where Clara/Star/staff would draw the line. Most words like 'crime and drugs' is more about the context and the area that just the fact we are mentioning them.
By the way, was there an anime or scene in specific that made you think about this topic?
