Kaname
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[quote="Grungie" pid='255581' dateline='1621337576']
Nothing about that post is me being angry. I legit have no idea what she’s talking about a lot of the time. If you think telling someone to fully explain what they’re talking about when someone tells them they have no idea what they’re saying is being mean and angry, then you have some problems.
The last time I don’t her to fully form out her opinions, someone else jumped in to defend her by saying “let her do whatever she wants” is the real underlying issue here. Someone telling her to stop problematic behavior, and then someone else jumping in to tell her “nah it’s totally okay” just reinforces the behavior. It’s exactly like when one parent tells a child to stop something, and they run over to their other parent that just tells them “it’s okay”. They’re just going to do it again because the other parent will let them do it all over again.
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I am not defending her m
When I first came here and when she bugged me to watch BL, I got so mad at her. Even after that her responses never made much sense to me but after talking to her for all these years, they don't bother me much now. I regret saying whatever I have said to her and @Nel before and just telling you how it was for me. If you don't like it then kindly ignore man
Nothing about that post is me being angry. I legit have no idea what she’s talking about a lot of the time. If you think telling someone to fully explain what they’re talking about when someone tells them they have no idea what they’re saying is being mean and angry, then you have some problems.
The last time I don’t her to fully form out her opinions, someone else jumped in to defend her by saying “let her do whatever she wants” is the real underlying issue here. Someone telling her to stop problematic behavior, and then someone else jumping in to tell her “nah it’s totally okay” just reinforces the behavior. It’s exactly like when one parent tells a child to stop something, and they run over to their other parent that just tells them “it’s okay”. They’re just going to do it again because the other parent will let them do it all over again.
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I am not defending her m
When I first came here and when she bugged me to watch BL, I got so mad at her. Even after that her responses never made much sense to me but after talking to her for all these years, they don't bother me much now. I regret saying whatever I have said to her and @Nel before and just telling you how it was for me. If you don't like it then kindly ignore man
