that's true
but one person can't do everything but themselves in a relationship. it's an entirely different thing if it's related to a health issue.
but you are suffering too hun. i will pray for your recovery and for your gf's recovery
but people think god is so great and kind and after you confess, everything will be cleared.
i just don't get it. if that's true, it will be unfair to the victims
that's a real tough situation to be in.
it's hard to enforce these boundaries when people are really sick.
take a decision that you won't regret later hun