Another dumb question lol

[DarkAngel]

can you be selfish in your life? i feel like i can't and that's what ruined my happiness

 

[Ravenfreak]

Everyone is allowed to be selfish at some point, just don't be selfish all the time. It's okay to think about yourself above others at times. I told my wife this, she used to let people walk over her and I told her it's okay to be selfish at times.

 

[DarkAngel]

Everyone is allowed to be selfish at some point, just don't be selfish all the time. It's okay to think about yourself above others at times. I told my wife this, she used to let people walk over her and I told her it's okay to be selfish at times.

thank you but it's just people around you who can constantly gaslight you and think it's normal, to not to think about you
that's how it is with me

 

[Rinko]

You should be allowed to. It's your life and you should have the final say in it. If it's a bad decision, then it should be your bed for the rest of your life