Why does fujoshi get a bad reputation?
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MoonlightShadow
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What is fujoshi?
the one who likes bl. like me.
alright. would you feel the same amount of disgust if it's about girls?
i recently found out that i hate gl even though i love bl.
Grungie
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Anyone that has basically one type of conversation is annoying.
i am just trying to make you see the other side of the coin lol
but fair enough. you can stick to whatever you want and whatever makes you comfortable.
Grungie
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It’s pretty irrelevant to the point.
Pretend this isn’t about BL, because you obviously have a vested interest.
Imagine having a conversation with someone over X topic, and then another individual comes in to detail it with an irrelevant conversation. Wouldn’t you be annoyed?
Now imagine that person always does interrupts to talk about one topic, and that’s also the only topic they talk about. They also twist every conversation to be about that one topic.
That’s why people find fujoshi’s annoying. The annoying ones push their interest into your face by either not shutting up about, trying to constantly get you into it, or twisting every conversation into it. It’s not because it’s gay, it’s because those people are just being annoying.
when you call a fujoshi , as a pervert in the first post, don't you think they have the right to defend themselves?
you go on and on about how you state only facts and i am trying to make you understand the other side opinions grung.
Grungie
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The reason why I called them annoying perverts was because the conversations being twisted to being about BL was always about these two (or more) characters were always engaged in hot gay sex. Which I explicitly said if you read that post.
If you’re frequently twisting every conversation into being about sex, you’re a pervert. There isn’t a need to bring up “the other side”. If it’s not a show about two guys having gay sex, there isn’t a need to bring it up.
So you should read the context of what was being said instead of immediately getting defensive.
you always keep saying about things like $ex but i don't remember saying explicit content anywhere.
when i say bl, most of the hypocrisy comes from people who thinks that it's nothing but $ex. despite the gender, it's just love and romance. i was genuinely wondering about why people cr@p talk bl fans and i see that it's about prejudice and when i try to point that out, it's about how we ship straight people. so let's just say i ship straight people, so what? isn't it just bromance? is that such a bad thing?
Grungie
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I didn't say you said anything about sex, the fujoshis that people find annoying are the ones who keep talking about sex. People find them annoying because they twist every conversation into being about sex. The gay part is honestly kind of irrelevant.
The reason why the gay shipping is annoying for people, is because it's always brought up in an unecessary fashion. Which is the entire point I keep bringing up that you repeatedly ignore.
Let's just say two people are talking about DBZ, and their favorite fights in DBZ. Well the annoying fujoshi would jump in the conversation and say "Goku is totally getting pounded in the ass by Vegita. He's def a power bottom". Even without the rauchy talk, just talking about how you ship Goku x Vegita is irrelivant to the conversation about your favorite fight scenes.
There's a time and place for different conversations, if a conversation is about shipping and you talk about how these two male characters are totes gay for each other, it fits the conversation. If we're talking about a fight scene and you want to talk about hot gay ass pounding, you're being annoying.
Instead of playing the victim, and just accept that there's a time and place for certain conversations, and realize that bringing up a random conversation in an unrelated topic is annoying to many people.
i understand your frustration a little lol
but now listen to my experience. whenever the girls are friendly in anime, i see the comments, i bet they love each other and are closeted cases and it would be hot to see two girls, most of them are posts from guys. and the same guys get disgusted when i talk about bl.
after seeing it, i usually get defensive but you are right. i don't get why people ship two characters from a non bl or gl series.
Grungie
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Tbh a good bit of those shows are either making that blatantly obvious, or they're ship baiting. So it's not unusual to see a conversation about those shows involving one or more characters being lesbians. The same goes for the show Free. They're not explicitly gay, but there's definitely gay baiting in there. If someone's upset about people talking about them being gay, watch a different show.
In your case, how you bring up BL isn't helping you. You bring it up a lot, and you make countless threads whining about how you want more people to be into it, and I've seen people on here say you've repeatedly tried pushing it on them. Pushing it on people is going to make them even less interested, and whining about it repeatedly does the same as well.
Just accept you're in a niche fandom and stop whining about it constantly.
ship baiting? lol in bleach. readhead , orihime and tatsuki has been shipped by many people. do you think it's even close to a ship? they are just goofing off. but may be you all don't see it.
i am not saying much about anything related to bl in the last year if you have noticed my posts. i don't care whether people like or not and i just don't want them to stop saying crap about it when they don't like me saying the same about things , they do like
Grungie
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Whining about the same thing over and over doesn’t fix anything, especially when you don’t do anything except whine about it.
MoonlightShadow
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Wait.. you feel hot to see two friendly girls in anime or two girls who commenting in comment section?
Rinko
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Who cares?
People are gonna hate what they hate and do you think anyone gives a $hit about it? I don't and it's better for you to stop caring about what others would think. They can make fun of Boku no pico or Love syndrome or some other bl anime, all they want. It just proves that they are a$$holes and you don't need to stoop so low to continue arguing with them. I keep telling you this for ages.
People are gonna hate what they hate and do you think anyone gives a $hit about it? I don't and it's better for you to stop caring about what others would think. They can make fun of Boku no pico or Love syndrome or some other bl anime, all they want. It just proves that they are a$$holes and you don't need to stoop so low to continue arguing with them. I keep telling you this for ages.
like i said, i used to do that lol.
did you even read my post?
no lol
yeah rinko. you are right.
Grungie
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This thread is the example of you still whining about it, and you whines about it in other threads recently, as in today.
So yes, you still do it.
Rinko
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Then stop explaining yourself to everyone.
Stop making threads like this which could attract negative attention. Who cares if Fujoshi have a bad reputation? I wouldn't care