I am going insane!

Blackangel

Blackangel

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my niece is living separately despite my objections and she didn't join her courses too. she didn't know what she was doing with her life at all. i don't know what i am going to do about her. i am working too hard and i am always worried about her. she got this bf who is a punk. i don't know what she sees in him. he is just a bad influence on her. what can i do?
@blackangel i tried to listen to her just like you said but nothing is going right.
@claraviolet she is alive but i don't know how she will live
 
Sorry to hear that man
May be you could try and talk things out. If nothing worked, just let it go
 
Blackangel said:
my niece is living separately despite my objections and she didn't join her courses too. she didn't know what she was doing with her life at all. i don't know what i am going to do about her. i am working too hard and i am always worried about her. she got this bf who is a punk. i don't know what she sees in him. he is just a bad influence on her. what can i do?
@blackangel i tried to listen to her just like you said but nothing is going right.
@claraviolet she is alive but i don't know how she will live
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[quote="Blackrose" pid='141881' dateline='1560214450']

Guessing that you tried to tag me but tagged yourself instead lol I told you we were like twins now lol
Well thisis quite the predicament...did you talk to her about the school thing?  if i remember right she wanted to switch or something right? Did that work out? Have you found out exactly why she doesn'twant to go to school?
This guy sounds like trouble. Does he treat her well? Maybe try to find out what she sees in him and try to meet him and talk to him to see what he's about. ..if you just tell her to get rid of him and keep insisting you might give him more leverage to get her to do whatever be wants. Show her that you want to be a part of her life and you want to know more about her. Give her space to find out more about this person butat the same time don't be a push over...if you keep pushing about this guy she might feel overwhelmed and do something wrong that can't be changed...how old is this kid again?
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That's funny man.
I didn't think I could tag our own name like that. You two are really twins man
 
[quote="Demon_skeith" pid='141743' dateline='1560145505']
sounds like you're at the point where you have to give space and just wait things out.
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i think so but i don't see how long i can wait
[quote="Blackrose" pid='141881' dateline='1560214450']

Guessing that you tried to tag me but tagged yourself instead lol I told you we were like twins now lol
Well thisis quite the predicament...did you talk to her about the school thing?  if i remember right she wanted to switch or something right? Did that work out? Have you found out exactly why she doesn'twant to go to school?
This guy sounds like trouble. Does he treat her well? Maybe try to find out what she sees in him and try to meet him and talk to him to see what he's about. ..if you just tell her to get rid of him and keep insisting you might give him more leverage to get her to do whatever be wants. Show her that you want to be a part of her life and you want to know more about her. Give her space to find out more about this person butat the same time don't be a push over...if you keep pushing about this guy she might feel overwhelmed and do something wrong that can't be changed...how old is this kid again?
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thank you and i didn't even realize that.
i have been trying to do what's good for her. she will be 22 soon i think
 
Blackangel said:
i think so but i don't see how long i can wait

thank you and i didn't even realize that.
i have been trying to do what's good for her. she will be 22 soon i think
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When I first read this post I though you were talking about a teenager. She is 22 even older then me I think she is old enough to make her own decisions by now.
 
There are many things that we don't approve of in others, Angel....but that's just it. It's your own opinion and no one...really cares. They can't change your opinion and you can't change people. If they are turning towards bad.....then you should give some friendly advice
 
Risk said:
When I first read this post I though you were talking about a teenager. She is 22 even older then me I think she is old enough to make her own decisions by now.
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she is still like a little kid to me. she is rebellious and i want her to think before she acts
Claraviolet said:
There are many things that we don't approve of in others, Angel....but that's just it. It's your own opinion and no one...really cares. They can't change your opinion and you can't change people. If they are turning towards bad.....then you should give some friendly advice
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Blackangel said:
she is still like a little kid to me. she is rebellious and i want her to think before she acts why can't i worry her? i don't get why she needs space clara. she is like my child
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Well maybe she is rebellious because you're treating an adult like a child.</p>
 
Risk said:
<p> Well maybe she is rebellious because you're treating an adult like a child.</p>
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Aren't you facing too many issues too man?
I can't post properly with all these latest errors. I want to see a bug free reply
 
Lucifer said:
Aren't you facing too many issues too man?
I can't post properly with all these latest errors. I want to see a bug free reply
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What do you mean I'm fine. I see im not the only one with problems making a reply.
 
Risk said:
What do you mean I'm fine. I see im not the only one with problems making a reply.
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Yes Man.
Something had gone wrong somewhere and it's very difficult to make any posts be it threads or just mere posts
 
Risk said:
<p> Well maybe she is rebellious because you're treating an adult like a child.</p>
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i don't treat her as a child and i just think of her as a child.
there is a difference
 
Blackangel said:
i don't treat her as a child and i just think of her as a child.
there is a difference
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You're saying you are upset she is not attending courses and don't approve of her boyfriend I think from her perspective you're treating he like a child. If my parents still treated me like that I wouldn't be to happy either.
 
Risk said:
You're saying you are upset she is not attending courses and don't approve of her boyfriend I think from her perspective you're treating he like a child. If my parents still treated me like that I wouldn't be to happy either.
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i didn't say anything about the course after our fight.
i didn't think it would even matter anymore and i lost so much money. but i am afraid her bf would get her in trouble. she is sickly on love saying all mushy things and listening to mushy songs. does she have to do that? when she knows i don't approve of him?
 
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