It's silly. The closest would not liking someone because they are shovibg their opinions down my throat and treating me poorly, but then it won't be because of their preferences but because they are being acting very crappy.
To hate carries a weight that would require for them to have done really unspeakable stuff. I am not one to hold grudges easily from what my experiences seem to point.
I think different tastes is pretty natural and through a respectful discussion it is actually interesting to learn different angles.
I think part of maturing is realixing you can admit something you love and hold dear can be simultaneously your favourite thing and something with plenty of flaws and that recognizing those doesn't detract from what that favourite anime, etc, does right.
