Apologize, easy but alien concept for some

MoonlightShadow

MoonlightShadow

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When you made mistake, it's just a proper thing if you apologize for it. It's something a normal healthy people will do, realizing own mistake and feel sorry for it. This is common, very common for human as social being, but for some people.. apologize is alien concept, something that hard to understand for them

I think.. this kind of people is arrogant, they look down on other people, they think that they are the only one who right, they only think and focus about themself and their opinion, and when their opinion is evidently wrong.. they will not apologize because they most likely think other people is stupid, well arrogant people usually think other people are stupid

And one thing, they usually get angry when they are told that they are wrong. It's funny to see this kind of people because in their own mind they think that they can bash other people around and get away from it unscatched. I really don't understand this, arrogancy make people doesn't make sense

So the key is being humble. Nothing wrong with discard arrogancy and be like normal person, apologize when you are wrong, except if it's already too late, then they will be rotten forever
 
I don't hesitate to make any apologies
It's a normal thing to do, when you have made a mistake.
 
[quote="Grey_Fox" pid='193816' dateline='1587447711']

Well it is normal for most people. But there is also people who refuse to ask for apologies when they are wrong
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That's not cool
They should try to make things right.
 
[quote="Grey_Fox" pid='193823' dateline='1587448247']

Impossible, because they think they are right and other' people are stupid. The showcase of human arrogancy
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Isn't that what we all have at some point.
When we do wrong by the person we dislike, we wouldn't want to apologize.
 
[quote="Grey_Fox" pid='193827' dateline='1587448735']

Yes but apology supposed to be not about like or dislike, but to take responsibility of their action. Refuse to apologize to people they dislike is just drop someone's quality lower
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You are right
But the higher the position is, the higher the personality and arrogance would be.
 
Rinko said:
You are right
But the higher the position is, the higher the personality and arrogance would be.
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This is very true..
And it doesn't have to be having actual position, when someone think they are better than other, then the it would be enough to trigger arrogancy
 
Grey_Fox said:
This is very true..
And it doesn't have to be having actual position, when someone think they are better than other, then the it would be enough to trigger arrogancy
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Yes
I have never met anyone who is humble, in a high position.
 
Being a lowly retail slave, I have to say sorry like I'm dropping pennies. Like others have mention, never see it from above and actually mean it.
 
Star_Of_Hope said:
We don't usually do that
But there are people who wouldn't want to apologize and believe they are above others
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My feelings exactly.
People are always like that and they don't want to bow down so easily
 
Demon_skeith said:
Being a lowly retail slave, I have to say sorry like I'm dropping pennies. Like others have mention, never see it from above and actually mean it.
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Yea, even if they say it, it most likely an act

Kaname said:
That's true man
You could just try to ignore them even though, it's the hardest thing to do
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This is what they say ignorance is really a bliss Haha..

Star_Of_Hope said:
We don't usually do that
But there are people who wouldn't want to apologize and believe they are above others
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Yup, that is arrogancy
 
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